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What’s Your Weather? A family feelings game

Feelings are like weather: every kind is allowed, and every kind passes. Guess each other’s weather at the table, share yours in the family chat, and answer with kind words. Free, no sign-up.

Sunny card from What’s Your Weather?: Proud. When you did something hard, or did your best. In your body: Standing tall, chin up, a big grin. I felt proud when ___.Stormy card from What’s Your Weather?: Frustrated. When something keeps not working, no matter what you try. In your body: Tight jaw, a growl, wanting to quit. I felt frustrated when ___.What helps card from What’s Your Weather?: Balloon breath. Breathe in slowly through your nose, like filling a balloon in your tummy. Breathe out slowly. Do it three times.Kind words card from What’s Your Weather?: “Do you want help, or just someone to listen?” Asking first shows you respect how they want to be supported.

Three rules

  • All weather is welcome. There are no bad feelings, and weather always passes.
  • Ask, don’t tell. You can ask how someone feels. Don’t tell them what they should feel.
  • Anyone can skip. Always, no questions asked.

The cards

48 cards: 24 feelings in four kinds of weather, 12 things that help, and 12 kind words. Tap a card to see it up close, send it, or print it.

SunnyComfortable feelings

RainyLow feelings

StormyMad feelings

FoggyUneasy feelings

What helpsSmall things to try when a feeling is big

Kind wordsWhat to say when someone shares a feeling

A note for grown-ups

If your child tells you something that worries you, like someone hurting them: stay calm, listen, believe them, and thank them for telling you. Then get help from a doctor, counselor or support service where you live. If anyone is in danger right now, call your local emergency number.

Questions

Who is it for?

Families with kids about 3 and up, and grandparents too. Little ones (3 to 5) can play Copy My Face in Weather Detective. Older kids and teens can share their weather in the family chat.

Is there a winner?

No. The whole family plays together: make a rainbow of ten guessed feelings at the table, or aim for everyone to share their weather five days a week.

What if my child picks a stormy or rainy card?

That’s the game working. Thank them for telling you, answer with a kind word, and maybe try one of the What helps cards together. You don’t need to fix the feeling.

Do we need accounts?

No. Nothing about your family is sent to us. Your weather days and your rainbow are saved only on your own phone.

Can we play without phones?

Yes. Open the page on one device and pass it around the table, or print the cards from each card’s page.

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